Anxiety Therapy in Dallas & Online
Tella Psychology is a Dallas-based psychology practice offering anxiety therapy online throughout Texas and participating PSYPACT states.
When Your Mind Won't Stop Thinking About What Could Go Wrong
Maybe your mind is always one step ahead, anticipating what could go wrong and trying to prevent it.
You replay conversations. Research decisions long after you have enough information. Notice a physical sensation and wonder whether something is wrong. Prepare excessively because being caught off guard feels unbearable. Or tell yourself to stop worrying, only to find your brain moving on to the next thing.
Sometimes anxiety is obvious. Other times, it hides behind being prepared, responsible, productive, careful, or “the one who has it together.”
At Tella Psychology, our psychologists provide evidence-based anxiety therapy for teens and adults. We help you understand what is keeping anxiety going and learn how to respond differently, so fear and uncertainty have less influence over the decisions you make.
In-person therapy is available at our North Dallas office, with online therapy available throughout Texas and participating PSYPACT states, including Pennsylvania, Virginia, North Carolina, Colorado, and others.
Looking for the right fit?
Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Klement to discuss your needs and find the right psychologist at Tella.
Anxiety Can Show Up in Different Ways
Perfectionism
When the pressure to get things right makes it hard to rest, make decisions, or ever feel like you've done enough.
Learn about perfectionism →Health Anxiety
When worries about your health keep pulling you toward checking, monitoring, researching, or seeking reassurance.
Learn about health anxiety →Panic Attacks
When intense physical sensations or sudden surges of fear leave you worried about when it might happen again.
Learn about panic attacks →Social Anxiety
When fear of judgment, rejection, or embarrassment makes it harder to connect or be yourself around other people.
Learn about social anxiety →Phobias
When fear of a particular situation, object, or experience starts limiting what you can comfortably do.
Learn about phobias →Generalized Anxiety & Chronic Worry
When your mind continually moves from one potential problem to the next, making it difficult to truly switch off.
Learn about chronic worry →Why Is It So Hard to Turn Anxiety Off?
What Keeps the Anxiety Cycle Going?
Once the alarm is activated, it makes sense that you want to feel safer. You might leave the situation, avoid it altogether, overprepare for a presentation, rehearse what you're going to say, replay a conversation afterward, put off a difficult decision, or rely on other strategies to prevent the thing you're afraid of from happening.
These are often called safety behaviors. They aren't irrational or signs that you're doing something wrong. They are attempts to protect yourself from something your brain has identified as a threat.
The problem is what your brain can learn from them.
If you escape the situation or do something extra to make yourself feel safe, your anxiety usually comes down. Your brain may then conclude, “Good thing we did that. That's what kept us safe.”
The next time you encounter a similar situation, the alarm can activate all over again.
Over time, anxiety can become a loop:
The Anxiety Cycle
How anxiety can take hold — and how therapy helps interrupt the cycle.
Uncertain Situation
A presentation, decision, social event, waiting for an answer, or another situation where you don't know exactly what will happen.
Anxious Predictions
“What if it goes wrong?” Your brain begins forecasting possible threats or negative outcomes.
Body Alarm
Your alarm system activates: racing heart, tense muscles, upset stomach, restlessness, or feeling on edge.
Safety Behaviors
You avoid, leave, overprepare, rehearse, replay conversations, put things off, or do something else to feel safer.
Temporary Relief
The anxiety comes down, at least for now. Your brain connects the safety behavior with feeling better.
Stronger Expectation of Danger
Your brain learns, “That kept us safe.” The alarm may fire more easily the next time.
Where Therapy Interrupts the Cycle
Uncertain Situation
A presentation, decision, social event, waiting for an answer, or another situation where you don't know exactly what will happen.
Anxious Predictions
“What if it goes wrong?” Your brain begins forecasting possible threats or negative outcomes.
Body Alarm
Racing heart, tense muscles, upset stomach, restlessness, or feeling on edge.
Safety Behaviors
Avoid, leave, overprepare, rehearse, replay conversations, put things off, or do something else to feel safer.
Temporary Relief
Anxiety comes down, at least for now. Your brain connects the safety behavior with feeling better.
Stronger Expectation of Danger
Your brain learns, “That kept us safe,” so the alarm may fire more easily next time.
Where Therapy Interrupts the Cycle
How Does Therapy Help Break the Anxiety Cycle?
Anxiety therapy helps you interrupt this cycle at multiple points.
You can learn to recognize anxious predictions without automatically treating them as facts, understand what's happening when your body's alarm system activates, and gradually reduce the avoidance and safety behaviors that unintentionally reinforce fear.
The goal isn't to convince yourself that nothing bad will ever happen. It's to give your brain opportunities to learn something different: uncertainty doesn't always mean danger, anxiety doesn't mean you're unsafe, and you can handle difficult situations without needing anxiety to dictate what you do next.
Anxiety can become a cycle that your brain gets very good at repeating.
It often starts with a situation that feels uncertain or potentially threatening. Maybe you have to give a presentation, make an important decision, attend a social event, wait for medical results, or deal with a problem you can't completely control.
Your brain starts making predictions:
What if I mess this up? What if they think I'm incompetent? What if something goes wrong? What if I can't handle it?
Those predictions can activate your body's alarm system. Your heart may race. Your muscles tense. Your stomach feels unsettled. You feel restless, shaky, short of breath, or unable to think clearly. Even when there isn't an immediate danger, your body can respond as though there is one.
How We Treat Anxiety at Tella Psychology
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CBT helps you understand the cycle that keeps anxiety going: anxious predictions activate your body's alarm system, and avoidance or safety behaviors bring short-term relief while reinforcing the expectation that the situation is dangerous.
Treatment helps you identify anxious predictions, respond differently to physical anxiety, and gradually reduce the avoidance and safety behaviors that maintain fear. When appropriate, this includes exposure-based strategies, where you intentionally approach feared or uncertain situations rather than continuing to avoid them.
Exposure is collaborative and gradual. The goal isn't to throw you into your worst fear or make anxiety disappear before you move forward. It's to give your brain opportunities to learn through experience that anxiety is tolerable, feared outcomes don't always occur, and you can handle uncertainty without relying on the same protective behaviors.
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Sometimes current anxiety is strongly connected to earlier experiences that continue to carry emotional intensity.
EMDR may be incorporated when distressing memories, experiences, images, or beliefs appear to be contributing to the current fear response. It may also be useful as part of a broader treatment plan when intense distress is making it particularly difficult to engage in other anxiety treatment.
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Sometimes anxiety makes more sense when we stop treating it as an enemy.
A part of you may be constantly anticipating problems because it has learned that staying vigilant is protective. Another may push you toward perfection because mistakes feel dangerous. Another may want to avoid anything that could lead to embarrassment or rejection.
IFS-informed therapy can help you understand these protective patterns with greater curiosity while developing more flexibility in how you respond to them.
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Depending on your needs, treatment may also incorporate mindfulness, ACT-informed skills, and DBT-informed skills.
These aren't meant to become another set of things you have to do correctly whenever you're anxious. They can help you notice what's happening, regulate when needed, and make a more intentional choice about what to do next.
Does Anxiety Therapy Mean Learning How to Never Feel Anxious?
No. The goal of anxiety therapy isn't to eliminate anxiety.
Anxiety is a normal human emotion, and sometimes it gives us useful information. Trying to make sure you never feel anxious can become another way anxiety controls your life.
Instead, therapy can help you become less governed by it.
That might mean making a decision without researching for another hour. Giving a presentation while allowing your heart to beat faster. Not checking a symptom again. Sending the email without rereading it ten times. Going somewhere even though you can't guarantee you'll feel comfortable.
The shift is from “How do I make sure I won't feel anxious?” toward “Can I handle anxiety and still do what matters to me?”
There isn't one technique that makes sense for every anxious person.
At Tella Psychology, treatment begins with understanding your particular anxiety cycle: what triggers it, what your mind predicts, what you do in response, what brings short-term relief, and what keeps the pattern going over time.
From there, treatment may draw from several approaches.
Anxiety Therapy That Looks at the Whole Person
Anxiety rarely exists in isolation.
Sleep, physical health, chronic stress, relationships, painful past experiences, work demands, identity, and the expectations you carry for yourself can all affect how anxiety shows up.
That's why we don't reduce treatment to a list of coping skills.
At Tella Psychology, we take a whole-person approach while still using evidence-based treatment for the specific problem you're experiencing. We also use measurement-based care to track how you're doing over time, so treatment can be adjusted based on what's actually helping.
Meet Our Psychologists
Tamaki Silver, PsyD
Adults & Couples
Dr. Silver works with adults experiencing anxiety, overthinking, work stress, relationship concerns, and difficulty feeling at ease with themselves or others. Her collaborative approach can be particularly helpful when anxiety intersects with relationships, life transitions, or ongoing stress.
Accepting new clients for online therapy
Jessica Klement, PhD
Teens & Adults
Dr. Klement specializes in anxiety, perfectionism, phobias, trauma, and sleep concerns. Her approach integrates CBT with approaches including EMDR and IFS when appropriate, particularly when anxiety involves longstanding patterns, intense fear, high self-expectations, or experiences from the past that continue to shape the present.
In-person in Dallas + Online
Waitlist for new individual clients
FAQs
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You don't need to reach a particular level of severity before seeking therapy. It may be worth considering when anxiety is taking up significant mental energy, affecting your sleep or relationships, influencing decisions, causing you to avoid things, or requiring a lot of effort to manage.
You can also seek treatment while you're still functioning well. Therapy doesn't have to wait until anxiety becomes a crisis.
Sometimes the clearest sign is simply feeling untethered—the way you used to understand yourself or organize your life no longer quite fits, but you haven't yet found your footing in what comes next.
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Normal anxiety tends to arise in response to stress, uncertainty, or a meaningful challenge and settles as the situation changes. An anxiety disorder generally involves fear or worry that is persistent, difficult to control, disproportionate to the situation, or interfering with everyday life.
A psychologist can help determine whether your experience fits a particular diagnosis, but you don't need to diagnose yourself before seeking help.
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Anxiety doesn't only respond to problems that are happening right now. Your brain can react to anticipated threats, uncertainty, physical sensations, memories, or the possibility that something could go wrong.
Sometimes the anxiety system becomes so practiced at looking for danger that it continues scanning even when you're objectively safe.
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Overthinking often functions as an attempt to prevent mistakes, prepare for problems, understand something completely, or reach enough certainty to finally feel comfortable.
The problem is that thinking longer doesn't always produce more useful information. Therapy can help you distinguish productive problem-solving from repetitive worry and rumination that keeps you stuck.
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Yes. Anxiety can involve physical symptoms such as a racing heart, muscle tension, sweating, trembling, nausea, dizziness, shortness of breath, gastrointestinal discomfort, or feeling keyed up.
New, severe, or unexplained physical symptoms should not automatically be assumed to be anxiety. Appropriate medical evaluation is important when there may be a physical health explanation.
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There isn't one treatment that is best for every anxiety presentation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has strong research support for anxiety disorders, and exposure-based approaches are particularly important for many fear- and avoidance-based concerns.
Treatment may also incorporate other approaches depending on the person's symptoms, history, and goals. At Tella Psychology, we individualize treatment rather than selecting a modality based on anxiety alone.
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Yes. Insight and change aren't always the same thing.
You may understand perfectly well that your fear is unlikely or that you're overthinking and still experience a strong emotional or physical response. Effective anxiety treatment often involves changing what you do when anxiety appears and creating new experiences, rather than simply developing a better intellectual explanation for why you're anxious.
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Sometimes approaching feared or avoided situations is an important part of effective anxiety treatment, but it should be collaborative and purposeful.
Exposure-based treatment typically progresses in manageable steps. You and your psychologist discuss what you're working toward, why it matters, and how to approach it rather than surprising you or forcing you into something without your agreement.
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Yes. Anxiety can make it difficult to disengage mentally at bedtime, increase physical arousal, or lead to worry about whether you'll be able to sleep. Anxiety and insomnia can also reinforce each other.
When insomnia has become a persistent problem of its own, targeted Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) may be more appropriate than treating it solely as a symptom of anxiety.
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Yes. Perfectionism and anxiety frequently reinforce each other. Fear of mistakes, criticism, disappointing other people, or making the wrong decision can lead to excessive preparation, checking, procrastination, reassurance-seeking, and difficulty knowing when something is “good enough.”
Treatment can help reduce the fear and rigid rules underneath perfectionistic behavior rather than simply asking you to lower your standards.
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Not necessarily. Some people treat anxiety with psychotherapy alone, while others benefit from medication, therapy, or a combination of the two.
Psychologists at Tella Psychology provide psychotherapy rather than medication management. If medication evaluation appears appropriate, we can recommend discussing it with a physician or provide a referral to a prescribing mental health professional.
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Yes. Tella Psychology provides online anxiety therapy throughout Texas and participating PSYPACT states, including Pennsylvania, Virginia, North Carolina, Colorado, and others.
Availability and clinician fit vary, so the consultation process helps determine which Tella psychologist and treatment option best match what you're looking for.
You don't need to eliminate every anxious thought before you can feel more like yourself.
Therapy can help you understand the cycle you're caught in, change the patterns that keep reinforcing it, and build confidence in your ability to handle uncertainty without organizing your life around avoiding it.
Not sure which type of anxiety treatment fits?
Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to tell us what you're experiencing. We'll help you determine which Tella psychologist and treatment option best match your needs.

